Category Archives: Adoption

Thank you so much to everyone who prayed!

The home study interview was almost three hours long and went really well. We covered a lot of topics – marriage, our upbringing, parenting styles, corporal punishment, religion, and international adoption. Our social worker is extremely personable and was very easy to talk with. Even the solo section at the end was fairly easy; it’s Jeff’s turn to be interviewed solo next week!

We have a follow up meeting next Thursday night that will be shorter and then we wait for the home study to be written.

I know God’s timing is perfect but it’s always so humbling to see it happen. We had been promised photo and video updates “sometime this week.” We received an email from our agency one hour before the interview with our photos and the video link. What an encouragement, right before an important interview! I really wish I could share the pictures but I’m not allowed until further along in the process.

My heart really is in Asia! My daughter is over there and I can’t wait to bring her home!

In two and a half hours, we have our first interview with the social worker. She’s going to be talking to us about parenting styles, our preparations for adoption, finances, health, and look over our home for basic safety standards.

I wasn’t nervous but now I’m feeling it. I can see God’s hand all over our adoption process thus far and I know that He will continue to guide. I definitely need to spend some time in prayer before the social worker arrives.

Tonight she’ll be interviewing both of us together and then me by myself. Next week it will be my husband’s turn to be interviewed alone. I hope it’s an easy interview!

We are still plowing through adoption stuff. Since we are applying to adopt a waiting child, we have motivation to push as fast as possible. The longer it takes for us to finish our part of the process, the longer she lives in an orphanage.

Yesterday I applied for my passport. I was very happy to find a nearby USPS that accepts passport applications. Last week I called and scheduled an appointment for this Monday morning. So, yesterday, I drove over to the USPS and handed in my application, my passport photos, and a check. Hopefully soon I am going to be a world class traveler! I told my husband he wasn’t allowed to go pick up our daughter by himself…

This morning we both visited our doctor to get general health checkups and have her fill out some paperwork about our medical history. She signed off that we are “mentally and physically fit to parent.” Woohoo! One more approval has been handed in.

Tomorrow I visit a lab to get some blood drawn for a routine check. It’s been years since I’ve had blood work done. I confess that I am not looking forward to it. Hopefully it will be an easy visit. I am drinking tons of fluids in preparation. Unfortunately, no more food until after our visit tomorrow.

We’re also working on a summary of our disciplinary beliefs/techniques for various ages of children. I’m having to research a bit as I’m honestly not sure of specific discipline techniques. I know spanking is a horrible form of punishment for a child who has been abandoned or neglected. I know positive reinforcement is better than punishment. But I’m not certain about which discipline ideas are best suited for what age. It looks like I have some more reading to do!

I know I’ve been posting a lot about the adoption lately but it’s the primary focus in our lives right now! We have lots to do now so that we can sit and wait for approvals later.

Yesterday we went to Walgreens and got passport photos taken. My husband just needs a passport renewal so he was able to mail off his application. I’m applying for my first passport so my process is a bit more involved. I have to order a copy of my birth certificate in order to submit my passport application. I also need a birth certificate for our home study.

96 business days.

Yes. The wait time for my birth certificate is currently 96 business days.

I am not happy. I thought our home study would get held up waiting for our FBI clearances. We have appointments to get fingerprinted on Tuesday. Instead, our home study is probably going to be waiting for a certified copy of my birth certificate! Now I wish I had ordered one earlier.

While we hurry up and wait, I’ve continued my deep cleaning. Our kitchen is now spotless! I scrubbed everything. I cleaned out the cupboards and decluttered and reorganized. I scrubbed the fridge. And the oven. And the floor. It’s so pretty!

Is this the adoption version of nesting? I don’t have much money to spend on making our home pretty or buying things for our daughter. Right now, almost all of our money is getting deposited into the adoption fund. Once that is fully funded, then we can make the house pretty. We did set aside a bit of money to buy a cheap entertainment center, as our modem and blu-ray player and Wii are all sitting on the floor. We’re also going shopping Sunday for a cheap floor lamp for our bedroom and a trash can for the pantry. Stuff we’d been doing without but now want to have so that we can show the social worker that our home is more inviting. Little things, but I think they’ll make a big difference.

I’m guessing that April is when we’ll be able to start buying furniture and clothes and such for our daughter. Our daughter. I just love those words. 🙂

MIL: “What are you reading right now?”
Husband: “Parenting books!”

Praise the Lord. 🙂