Work, bathrooms, and other distractions

Change of plans. My goal today was to clean both showers and toilets. I’ve scrubbed at the window above the shower in the main bathroom and cleaned the shower walls. I started scrubbing the tub but it’s going to need a lot of work. I’m really sweaty now and my arms are tired. That’s what I get for not giving it a really good cleaning in ages.

I think I’m done with the cleaning aspect of today’s six most important things list. I have the opportunity to put in several hours of paid work today and I’m going to jump on that chance. My paid work is sporadic and today I have the chance to get a few hours in, whereas I normally only get a few hours each week or two. We need the money so I’m going to concentrate on that today.

Hubby and I are going on a date tonight! This plan assumes he gets off work on time as he’s working in the office today instead of at home. We’re going to the Phoenix Art Museum to see the Phantom Sightings: Art after the Chicano Movement and Charting the Canyon exhibits. Wednesday evenings are free admission for the general public.

31 Days to Clean – Day 8

Day 8 of the challenge! Today was all about making the bedroom a sanctuary.

Well… I don’t think there’s anything that can be done with our bedroom right now. There’s nowhere to put plants, candles, etc. and I can’t hang any pictures on the walls. I made the bed this morning and made sure everything was picked up and put away.

Instead, I worked on the bathrooms. We have two, one in the hallway and one just off our bedroom. The bathroom off our bedroom is deemed the kitty bathroom. That’s where the catboxes are. Instead, we use the bathroom off the hallway because it has a full tub.

I hate cleaning bathrooms. It’s my least favorite chore. Unfortunately, I procrastinate cleaning either bathroom. I get grossed out by the bathrooms even if I clean them once a week. Instead (confession time!), I only clean it about once a month. The toilet bowl gets cleaned more often than that, but the entire bathroom receives a scrub down about once every 4 weeks. Bad Cassandra!

Because the cleaning challenge spends several days working on the bedroom, I decided to spend several days working on the bathrooms. Sure, I could do them all at once but then I’d have to work in there for several hours. No thanks. Instead, I’ll break it up over a couple days and then everything will be clean. Hopefully then I can get back to cleaning the bathroom once a week! So today I cleaned the mirrors and the countertops in both bathrooms. Tomorrow I’m going to tackle the toilets and the showers. On Thursday I will scrub both floors. Then both bathrooms will be all fresh and clean!

Instead of posting both before and after photos, I just have the Befores. I’ll post Afters on Thursday when everything is clean.

Kitty bathroom:
Yes, the cats are messy. I can sweep and there will be cat litter on the floor within four hours… Oh, and the clothes hanging in the shower are my line drying shirts. The kitty bathroom is the only place in the house with enough room to line dry, as the apartment complex will not allow us to use a clothes line on our patio.

Main bathroom:

Posting pictures on the internet of my dirty bathroom is really embarrassing. Maybe that will motivate me to keep it clean?

31 Days to Clean – Day 7

Today is day 7 of the 31 Days to Clean challenge. I can’t believe I’ve completed 7 days already! Time goes by way too quickly.

The mental aspect of today’s lesson revolved around six tips in leading a self-disciplined life.

1. Commitment – Sometimes I struggle to remain committed. I don’t have too many issues making a commitment; it’s maintaining commitment that is difficult.

2. Set and complete goals – Again, I have little trouble setting goals. I love creating goals and steps to complete those goals. I just have trouble following through.

3. Do what you say you will do – I try but need to try harder. If I don’t think I can complete something, I need to keep my mouth shut about volunteering. Which leads to number 4…

4. Learn to say “no” – Yup. Learn to say no.

5. Practice – Practice doesn’t make perfect, though it certainly helps improve. Moving forward and making progress is more important than reaching perfection, especially if perfection isn’t something that will likely be reached. It’s still important to try!

6. Don’t give up – Never quit!

Today’s cleaning challenge is general bedroom clean up. As evidenced by the pictures below, our bedroom is very sparse and didn’t need much cleaning. I put the clothes away, vacuumed, made the bed, and took the library books into the living room where they belonged.

Before:

After:

We live very simply (as in, we don’t have any money and therefore can’t afford nicer furniture). The only things in our bedroom are the futon we sleep on and a flipped over laundry basket that serves as my nightstand. It’s pretty easy to avoid clutter in the bedroom when you have nowhere to put it!

31 Days to Clean – Day 6

Today is a continuation of Friday. My desk is very clean and today I purged my old files. I consolidated some files, threw some old paperwork into the shred pile, and reorganized the way my files are divided. Now I should be able to find what I’m looking for!

There is still the question of how I gain self-discipline to stay on top of my housework. I like these verses:

Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do,
do all to the glory of God

(1 Corinthians 10:31).

Whatever you do in word or deed,
do all in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks through Him to God the Father

(Colossians 3:17).

Whoever speaks,
is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God;
whoever serves
is to do so as one who is serving by the strength which God supplies;
so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ,
to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen

(1 Peter 4:11).

I want God to be glorified in everything that I do and say.

31 Days to Clean – Day 5

Today’s assignment is about organizing my work environment. Well, like the living room, this was a fairly easy one. My desk is in our dining room, which we treat as just an extension of our living room. Over the past few weeks, I’ve been spending time each day cleaning off my desk, getting rid of things I don’t use anymore, and filing paperwork. So today’s assignment really just felt like an excuse to tidy up. Fun!

Before:

After:

I put away a clean pair of socks that had ended up on my desk, wiped off the cat hair from Bruno sleeping right next to my laptop, and filed some recent mail. The notebooks on the top shelf of my desk are 1) a pretty spiral bound notebook I use at church to take notes on the sermons, 2) July’s morning pages composition book, and 3) a new composition book for August’s morning pages. The notebook sitting next to my laptop contains my six most important things lists.

Someday, I’m going to accrue enough Amazon gift cards (from filling out online surveys) to purchase these cat bookends. I want to store my composition notebooks, reference books, and my current reading books on the back of my desk and need a way to keep them propped up!

It looks like day 6 is a continuation of the workspace cleaning challenge. On Sunday, as I’m taking tomorrow off for the Sabbath, I’m going to rifle through my file box and purge the really old files and paperwork. I think I have tax records dating back to 1999.

31 Days to Clean – Day 4

Day 4 of the 31 Days to Clean challenge. Today’s post talked about personality types and how we best clean. This week, listing out my “six most important things” is working very well for me. A strict schedule cramps my style, but telling myself that I will complete a, b, and c from the list by lunch and x, y, and z by dinner is working extremely well. Our house is actually staying pretty clean!

The cleaning assignment for today is the living room. Our living room is usually the cleanest room in the house, probably because we spend almost all of our waking hours here. A long time ago, the clutter drove me crazy and I spent a week long vacation cleaning and reorganizing our living room. We work, play, and relax in our living room and I try to keep it fairly clean.

Before:

After:

The extra office chair is our cats’ chair. Of course, they slept there more before we bought the new office chairs. They prefer whichever chair we are sitting in, not one that’s designated the “official cat hair collector.”

We also have a canvas library book bag that we keep next to the coffee table. When we finish a library book, we toss it into the bag and always have books ready to return. Of course, our cats love lying on the bag or rubbing on it and it is also covered in cat hair. Gotta love those cats!

31 Days to Clean – Day 3

Today is day three of the 31 Days to Clean challenge. I’m asked to think of why I want a clean home. My first response is that it’s supposed to be clean! Dirty, messy, cluttered homes are not relaxing or healthy.

I want a clean home so that my husband feels like this is a sanctuary for him. I want him to be happy to be at home, comfortable and relaxed. For me, I want a clean home because the mess drives me crazy. If it’s not too noticeable, I can ignore it. But once the mess grows beyond a certain point, it makes me extremely uncomfortable even in my own home. There’s no peace when our home is messy.

A secondary reason I want a clean home is so that we can invite people over with no notice. When you don’t invite friends over because your house is too messy and would embarrass you, it’s time to clean. When you’re worried about what the maintenance man thinks it, it’s time to clean.

I believe the home is a reflection of the husband. When people come over, they are going to judge my husband based on my cleaning or lack thereof. They will think less of him because I failed to create a clean home for us. I want my husband to be well thought of and comfortable inviting his friends or boss over at any time.

My mission statement – Our home is to be a place where God, family, and friends would be welcome at any time. It is to be a place for my husband and I to relax in God’s company and our own.

31 Days to Clean – Day 2

Moving forward in the 31 Days to Clean series… Today is day 2 and Sarah Mae points out the importance of the “Six Most Important Things List.” I’ve heard the idea before but I’m not sure where. I’ve been implementing the list for the past few days and my productivity has sky-rocketed. The only thing I haven’t tried is to write my list out the night before. I’ve been writing it the morning of.

My six most important things list has some of the same tasks from day to day but most are different. I’ve reminded myself of upcoming bills, budget updates, work assignments, some research I’m currently doing, and various chores. Blogging is on my list today as I didn’t want to forget to write about day 2.

Sarah Mae also talks about scheduling issues. I have a very loose schedule, especially since my husband works from home most of the time. I tend to go to bed when my body says it’s time and I wake up naturally every morning. Immediately after waking, I write my morning pages (will blog about this some other time) and then exercise. Shower after exercise and then breakfast. By this time, it’s usually 9 or so already. The rest of the day doesn’t follow any sort of formal schedule. I complete my work assignment if I have one, work on my six most important things list, and attempt to tame our spare bedroom.

Maybe if my husband starts working out of client offices instead of home I will write out a time schedule for myself. But right now, I vacuum in between his calls. A formal schedule would not work with his current work situation.

My biggest productivity blocker is the internet. I try to limit my browsing time but I use the internet to work. It’s literally impossible for me to work without it. I also use the computer to work on the budget, pay bills, do research for my writing, write, etc. I think the easiest way to conquer my biggest time waster is just to limit the amount of time I spend surfing. I’m allowed to use the computer for personal reasons for a set amount of time, usually 15-30 minutes, and then I move on to something else that’s more productive.

In the spirit of productivity, I tackled the kitchen today and took before and after pictures.

Before:

After:

Ahhhhh, much better.

31 Days to Clean

I like lists, programs, and schedules. They are my “love language” for productivity. When I saw this 31 Days to Clean challenge on a Christian woman’s blog, I knew that I had to give it a try. Our house is relatively clean but I undergo spurts of productivity and end up doing massive cleaning on Fridays to ready the house for the Sabbath. My hope is that I can find a workable schedule and motivation to keep the house clean on a daily basis instead of skipping housework and then doing massive cleaning sessions.

Day 1 is all about priority. What are my priorities now versus what they should be? Right now, I have to admit that taking care of myself and making myself happy is way too high on the priority list. Here are what my priorities should be, my goal:

1. God – He should be the most important thing in my life. Without God, I have nothing. I want to spend more time in prayer, Bible study, and Scripture memorization.

Motivational Scripture:

“And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30).

“In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins” (1 John 4:10).

2. My husband – God gave me a wonderful husband and I need to focus more on him than I do on myself! My husband demands very little from me but I know he would be thrilled if I put more of my energies into the little touches that will bless his life.

Motivational Scripture:

“…Her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all'” (Proverbs 31:38, 29).

“Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord” (Colossians 3:18).

3. Home – I want to keep our home clean. I want to feel that we can invite guests over at any time without worrying about the kitchen floor. I would like our home to feel inviting to us, a place to relax and spend time together.

Motivational Scripture:

“She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness” (Proverbs 31:27).

Women are “to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled” (Titus 2:5).

4. Church – My husband and I are still church-less. We’ve been floundering for months since our church was closed. We’ve visited other area churches but have yet to find one that we can call home. I’d like to get to know other Christians, find a Bible study, and get involved in some sort of ministry/outreach.

Motivational Scripture:

“And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ” (Ephesians 4:11-13).

“For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them” (Matthew 18:20).

5. Personal – I have several hobbies that I’d like to learn more about and practice, mainly photography and writing. I also need to take care of my body with proper exercise, enough sleep, drinking plenty of water, etc.

Motivational Scripture:

“So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31).