Surprise!

I found such a wonderful surprise in my inbox this afternoon! My coordinator emailed and sent along an update on our kiddo! She’s grown half an inch since the last update in October. I’m starting to wonder if all of the clothes we bought are going to fit her… I think they will. We bought a size larger than we thought we would need.

We also learned a couple more things she’s interested in – board games and drawing! My husband and I LOVE board games so we look forward to play with her. We’ve found a couple board games that require little to no English and will hopefully be able to play more complex games with her in the future. We love Euro-style board games, but they require a lot of English to play. In the meantime, we’ll teach her simpler ones like this cake building game I found.

I mailed off Cin-Ru’s care package this morning. It is supposed to arrive in Taiwan before our Skype call so that they can give it to her during the call. We sent her a t-shirt, a pair of warm fuzzy socks, a book, and a mosaic to put together. We are hoping that we will have time to work on the mosaic with her during the call. We sent her one of the photos and a pile of mosaic pieces and kept the others here. It’s an activity that requires no English but will keep us busy for five to ten minutes if we can do the activity together. I meant to take pictures of the care package this morning but completely forgot.

Then we received another fun surprise in the mail. Letters!

We received five letters from our sponsored kids today, four of them with photos. I love receiving the new photos and the letters! Now I have lots of letters to respond to this week. Two of our sponsored kids have birthdays next month so I need to get cards in the mail soon as well. I do my best to keep the Post Office in business!

Skype and care packages

We have our first Skype date scheduled! I am so excited because it’s in less than four weeks. I am also terrified because the Skype call on our last adoption attempt was awkward and not at all what we had expected. I’d almost rather go into this Skype call with no prior experience because I know how hard it can be. On the other hand, I know a few things I can do to help it go better. Hopefully this Skype call will go much more smoothly. At least we know that Cin-Ru wants to be adopted!

Because we have a few weeks until our first Skype call, we have time to prepare a care package for her to open on the call. I am excited to put this package together for her. We already have a couple of things picked out to send and want to pick out one more. Hopefully we can go shopping tomorrow to find that last item. I want to send the package off as soon as possible so that it will definitely arrive before our call.

All of our dossier paperwork is on its way to California! We received the contracts this morning, finished filling out dossier paperwork, and visited the notary this afternoon. The notary was so fast. He just signed everywhere we pointed. We were in and out in only 15 minutes, which means we made it to the post office in time to guarantee delivery to our agency tomorrow.

Next up – sending the contracts back to Taiwan so that the agency will release the rest of Cin-Ru’s paperwork. We need that in order to submit our I600 application to USCIS. The I600 is the US government’s method of verifying that Cin-Ru is an orphan and thus eligible to be adopted by an American. While that is going on, our agency will send our dossier to a couple government offices to get the authentication processed. That prepares all of our paperwork for the court process.

I am trying so hard not to figure out a timeline of how much longer it could possibly be until we travel. I’ve already worked out a rough estimate in my head but don’t want to rely on that. We know first hand how much things can change. After all, it’s already been over 18 months and we still have a long way to go. All of our research showed that Taiwan adoptions are supposed to take under a year. In the meantime, I will just take it one day at a time!

Good news on New Year’s Eve!

We ended 2014 with a bang. Praise the Lord, because Lord willing, we will have a daughter home in 2015! Our agency emailed this evening with news that the adoption contracts arrived in their office this afternoon. They don’t yet have a report of the meeting with our girl but the contracts arriving means she said yes and we are moving forward!

We will receive the contracts and instructions for completing our dossier early next week. I am so excited to see what the next steps are and to find out what contact we will have with her next. Maybe a Skype call? Another care package? I’ll be emailing my agency on Friday to find out what we can do next to start bonding with her.

I am so excited and can’t wait to see what God brings our way in 2015. Hopefully we’ll have a daughter home soon!

Happy New Year!
新年快樂!

18 months

Today marks 18 months since we officially started our adoption journey. I feel like so much has happened and yet I feel like, in some ways, we have made no progress at all. My husband and I talked about this tonight and agree that we have made progress but it sure doesn’t feel like it! We have an up to date home study, approval from the US government to adopt a foreign born orphan, and approval from a Taiwan agency to be matched with one of their children. It’s progress, but not much.

Hopefully we hear an update soon on the meeting with Cin-Ru so we know if this adoption attempt is going forward. I hope and pray that we will have a daughter home sometime in 2015!

Fun with a new Advent calendar

We found out that the social worker is meeting with Cin-Ru next week! Our coordinator has requested a report as soon as possible, as she’s going on vacation at the end of next week. We’re hoping to find out what Cin-Ru thinks about our family and about us adopting her. Hopefully it is good news!

We bought a Hello Kitty advent calendar to count down to Christmas. It’s so cute! We’ll share photos of it with Cin-Ru in one of our later care packages. I sure hope she likes Hello Kitty. They make such fun clothes!

December’s goals – week one

I have two goals this month – to clean my house from top to bottom and to make significant progress in my Chinese class.

Cleaning – I’m not doing too bad but I need to pick up the pace. There have been several days of adoption excitement and that took precedence over my cleaning. I did declutter several areas last week but there is lots more to do. Tomorrow I’ll be tackling my upstairs bathroom.

Chinese – This is where all of my progress lies. Last week I completed just under six solid hours of studying, plus about two hours of listening practice by watching Taiwanese television shows. I finished three lessons from YoyoChinese, which meets my goal requirements. I’ve already studied an hour today and might squeeze in a bit more before bed. With the adoption process moving forward, I need to keep studying. I don’t want to be in Taiwan wishing that I had learned more!

In adoption news, our photo album was mailed off today. We sent a photo album, a stuffed animal, and a small interlocking hearts necklace. Hopefully she likes everything! I can’t wait to hear back the report from the social worker’s visit with her later this month.

Pre-approval!!

We received our pre-approval today!! I’m so excited!!

I printed the photos at Walgreens and picked them up today. This weekend I have to finish assembling the photo album and we’ll be mailing out the care package on Monday morning. It will be forwarded to Taiwan immediately because the social worker will be visiting with her the third week of December to show her our photos!

Over the next few weeks, I will be praying that her heart is prepared for a family. The social worker reports that she wants a family; hopefully she will want OUR family to be her family!

One last photo shoot

We finally got our Christmas tree! This is my first Christmas tree since I was a teenager. We bought a real one so our house smells divine. I just have to remember to water it every day!

Tonight we took a couple more photos to finish up Jenny’s album. I still have to print the photos and put them in the album, but all the photos have been taken. The present in the photo is for her after she comes home. The fox is going in the care package. Hopefully we receive pre-approval soon so that we can send it to her!

Fun stuff!

Our agency expects that we will receive pre-approval to adopt Jenny sometime in December. If that is God’s will for us, we are hoping that it will happen very soon! Once we receive pre-approval, we are allowed to send Jenny her first care package. In preparation, we ordered a photo album from Amazon this weekend.

We can record a 10 second message so that she’ll be able to hear our voice while looking at our photos.

I love that there is space provided next to each photo to write a description.

And there’s even a page to write an inscription to her.

We have to take a few new photos, primarily of her bedroom, before printing all the photos and filling out the descriptions. The care package is almost ready to go and I can’t wait until we receive the word that we’re ok to mail it off! I hope she enjoys this album!