Preparation Day, Week 1

I feel more prepared for the Sabbath than I have in a long time. I made a conscientious effort this week to clean my house, to be mindful of what still needed to be done, and to make a plan for today.

On Wednesday and Thursday, I completed the majority of my house cleaning. This made it easier for me to focus today on the last minute things that needed to be done.

This morning I made a quick trip to the grocery store for what we need over the weekend. I washed the laundry so that we have clean clothes for church. The dishes are washed and the dishwasher emptied. The entire house is tidied.

I didn’t prepare our Sabbath meal in advance but I want to learn to do that in the future. If our friend goes to church with us tomorrow, we’ll stay for potluck. Otherwise we’ll come home and have pasta for lunch. (Is it possible to boil the noodles in advance so that everything just needs to be heated?)

All that’s left for today is to go for a run and put the clean sheets back on the bed. I’m ready to welcome the Sabbath!

Library Time!

I’m so excited! Today I returned most of my books to the library and checked out just a few more.

Glamorous Illusions by Lisa T. Bergren (new-to-me author)

Escaping the Devil’s Bedroom: Sex Trafficking, Global Prostitution, and the Gospel’s Transforming Power by Dawn Herzog Jewell

Cranford by
Elizabeth Gaskell

Life Without Limits: Inspiration for a Ridiculously Good Life by Nick Vujicic

The Street of a Thousand Blossoms by Gail Tsukiyama

Passionate Housewives Desperate for God by Jennie Chancey

The only trouble will be choosing which two to take with me on my trip!

Preparation day and the Sabbath

Over the past several weeks, I’ve spent a lot of time in prayer and Bible study. I’ve had my eyes opened about what Sabbath means to God, what it means to me, and how I should be spending His holy day. I’ve been convicted in several areas of my life, places where I feel that I’m not really letting God lead.

One of those places is Sabbath preparation. I truly believe that God has given us a day of rest, a day to spend with Him, and that He is offended if we don’t honor His command to keep His Sabbath holy. I have been convicted that I should not be spending my Sabbath days doing household labor that could be done on other days, mainly in the areas of meal preparation and how I get ready for church (ironing clothes, etc).

I feel that I need to be more conscientious about how I spend the rest of the week so that I am prepared for the Sabbath when it arrives. There is no excuse for not having our clothes ironed and ready by Friday afternoon. There is no reason why I cannot prep food and prepare meals on Friday for Sabbath. I haven’t been doing it, mainly because I’ve been lazy and have not been convicted about the importance of following God’s commands about the Sabbath day.

My Sabbath issues are not just about preparing in advance. I tend to be more motivated about cleaning at the beginning of the week and lose motivation as the week progresses. By the time Friday arrives, the house is rather messy. I attend a knitting group on Friday mornings, go grocery shopping immediately afterwards, and then spend the afternoon scrambling to get things done before sundown. Usually I fail, for whatever reason. So Sabbath arrives and I have dishes in my sink, dinner half prepared, clean clothes but nothing ironed, and an untidy house. I stress when the house is messy and thus often feel overwhelmed on Sabbath.

I am making a commitment this week to put God first. That means that I need to prepare myself both physically and spiritually to spend time with Him on Sabbath. My house needs to be clean so that I can rest my mind. My food preparation needs to be done so that I’m not distracted by the every day chores. My dishes need to be washed and put away so that I can toss the dirty ones into the dishwasher as we use them and thus not create a huge mess in the kitchen, which in turn stresses me out.

I’m sure I won’t get everything right this first week. But I am trying. I want to be open and ready to spend time with God during the time He set aside for us.

Another batch of paperwork

We still don’t have good news, but we’ve mailed off another batch of paperwork! Hubby has been wanting to submit our I-600A: Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition. This application, if approved, will give us pre-approval to bring an adopted child into the United States. Before looking into adoption, I had no idea we would have to request approval from the United States to bring a child into the country. It makes sense, now that I think about it. But it’s something I wasn’t expecting to do!

They required a stack of paperwork:
-A contact form to be notified that they received our application.
-A 3 page application.
-An original copy of our home study
-A copy of both of our birth certificates
-A copy of our marriage license
-Two checks, one for the application fee and one for advance payment of fingerprinting and background checks

Whew! We sent it off priority mail. They should have it on Thursday and then we wait for fingerprinting appointments to be mailed to us. After that, I’m not sure exactly how the process works!

Once we are officially matched with the girl we want to adopt, we submit the I-600, which requests approval for that specific child to be allowed into the United States. The pre-approval that we submitted today should shorten the wait for the actual approval. I can’t wait!

God’s miracle timing

Last week we realized that we were very low on printer ink and ordered cartridges from Amazon.

Yesterday, our printer ran out of ink and refused to print another page. Our Amazon order was scheduled to be delivered this Friday.

Today, three days early, our printer ink was delivered.

An hour later, we received a supplemental questionnaire from our adoption agency that needed to be printed, signed, scanned, and emailed back.

God’s timing is always perfect.

Productivity – my motivation is back!

I have had extremely low productivity over the past week. I’m not sure what triggered it but I’ve barely been keeping up with the minimums – dishes and cleaning the cat boxes.

On Wednesday night, my husband went to bed feeling fine. He woke up Thursday morning in extreme back pain and had no idea what caused it. I’ve had this happen to me once before and was fairly certain that it was due to the cats causing me to contort in my sleep and thus pinching a nerve or some other such lovely result.

Thursday night – no sleep for either of us
Friday night – very little sleep for both of us
Saturday night – a little bit better
Sunday – hubby finally starts feeling better and we get a half decent night of sleep

I’m still very tired from the lack of sleep but something finally triggered my drive for productivity. I’m not sure why my productivity died and I’m not sure why it has returned. But I have to embrace it while it’s here! I’ve already cleaned off the Leaning Tower of Papers on top of my printer. After hubby gets off this series of work calls, I will catch up on the dishes.

Hmmm… What should I do next?

Creativity in the kitchen

I’ve already tried two new recipes this week and can recommend both.

Today I made Smoky Roasted Portobello Sushi. We weren’t big fans of the heart of palm but really, really liked the mushrooms. I want to try adding the mushrooms to our regular sushi rolls and see how they taste.

Yesterday I made Apple Cinnamon Baked Oatmeal. This was my first attempt at baking oatmeal and I will be baking it again! It was incredibly good. Too bad my husband didn’t get to eat any. I took it to Bible study and there wasn’t any left when I came home.

I’m not trying any other new recipes this week. The rest of our meals are tried and true favorites: green curry, fajitas, garlic sesame soba noodles, and pizza.

A new-to-us holiday

中秋快樂!

Zhōngqiū kuàilè!

Today is the Mid-Autumn Festival in China, Vietnam, and Taiwan. We want to keep our daughter’s heritage alive and are making an effort to learn about her birth culture and holidays.

Kiki Bakery, a local Taiwanese bakery

Red bean paste mooncake

Lotus mooncake

Yummy!

Happy Mid-Autumn Festival!

What I’m Reading

This week I’m continuing a couple old books and adding a couple new ones.

40 Most Influential Christians
by Daryl Aaron

Wives and Daughters
by Elizabeth Gaskell

Positive Discipline: The First Three Years
by Jane Nelsen

Parenting Teens With Love And Logic
by Foster Cline & Jim Fay

None of these books are “I can’t put it down. Must. Keep. Reading” books but I’m plugging away at them. I think both parenting books are due back at the library on Sunday so I’ll finish those up first. I can’t add to my 60 cents in fines!